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You’re Dating a Narcissist! (2025): Marisa Tomei Gives a Performance That’s Way Out of This Comedy’s League

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“You’re Dating a Narcissist!” is directed by Ann Marie Allison (Don’t Neg Meg, Lift) and stars Marisa Tomei (Spider-Man: Homecoming, The King of Staten Island), Sherry Cola (Joy Ride, Good Fortune), Ciara Bravo (Cherry, Wayne), Marco Pigossi (Invisible City, High Tide), José María Yazpik (Madame Web, Narcos), and Jonah Platt (The List, Trolls: The Beat Goes On!). This film follows a psychologist who is trying to stop her daughter from getting married from someone who she claims is a narcissist.

If there is anything that got me into “You’re Dating a Narcissist,” it would be the stars. Not just because they are who they are, but some of them have the bonus of being in a film I previously reviewed. A couple years ago I had the privilege of attending South by Southwest in Austin, Texas. I was not there the entire time, but I did end up going to a couple screenings during my visit, one of which includes “High Tide.” I do not remember the entirety of that movie, but I do remember enjoying it and finding it to have likable characters. Two of the films’ stars included Marisa Tomei and Marco Pigossi. Little did I know these two would reunite within a year or two for another movie, that being this one. Not to mention, this film stars Sherry Cola, who has grown on me as a performer. She has proven she a has knack for comedic roles through “Joy Ride,” one of the finest comedies of 2023.Not to mention “Good Fortune,” which made me laugh consistently.

Although just because this movie has stars on screen, does not automatically guarantee it is going to be a five star experience. Is this film worth watching? Eh…

This is not the worst film I have ever seen. But saying that comes off as if I am trying my darndest to be nice.

I truly want to like this movie, because it is based on the experience of the director, Ann Marie Allison, being in a relationship with someone she realized was a narcissist. Yet there are times where I found Judy (Tomei) to be annoying as a lead. I understand the movie dolls her up as a psychologist who happens to have written a book on the movie’s titular subject matter. However, she often comes off as judgy in her line delivery and mannerisms. Sure, in her mind, she is trying to do what she sees as the right thing, protecting her daughter from marrying someone she believes would not be the right person. But watching her overanalytical tendencies and hearing her critical dialogue is sometimes cringe-inducing. Overall, the relationship between Judy and her daughter, Eva (Bravo) is somewhat uncomfortable to watch at times. Perhaps one could argue that is the point, but even so, as a viewer, I would watch these two on screen together and find certain moments between them to come off as mind-numbing.

It took me awhile to think about why exactly Marisa Tomei was the lead of this movie, rather than Ciara Bravo, who is the one who happens to be dating the… Well, “narcissist.” On the surface, Tomei is the most recognizable star in the cast and has top-billing. But there is more than name recognition alone. There is a connective tissue tying the story together, specifically clips featuring Tomei letting out an endless stream of thoughts. These clips match several scenes of the movie and the characters’ actions within them. The way these scenes are put together are neatly edited and well-timed. In fact, as much as I at times was not exactly fond of Tomei’s character, her acting is nevertheless top-notch in these scenes. She kills every moment despite sitting down in front of a camera the entire time. At the same time though, having Tomei’s character as the lead is what occasionally makes the movie irritating. The movie spends so much time with this character, who deep down, means well, but gives off such an overcritical vibe.

Going back to the idea that this film is based on Ann Marie Allison’s personal experience, part of me thinks Judy is almost designed to be the character that most resembles her, having gone through the troubles of her relationship. If anything, Allison resembles two characters. The recently mentioned Judy, as well as the more obvious candidate, her daughter Eva. Each time Eva does something in this movie, Judy often sounds like the voice that is trying to tap into her head telling her, “I’ve seen this, girl! Get out of there!” In that way, the film tends to work. But I had no idea prior to this review that this film was based on reality, so it took me time to further appreciate the film. Why? Because this is designed to be a comedy. It is kind of an unusual subject matter to try to make funny, but having watched enough “Family Guy,” people can take heavy topics and whip upan effective joke or two out of them. That said, this movie is not that funny. I did not laugh much, and anything that I found funny at the time of watching this movie, I have likely forgotten. I could not quote a single line at this point that had me chuckling. Not the best of signs.

Parts of the movie are mildly entertaining as we see the characters sometimes getting into some wild, goofy antics. Some of the secondary characters stand out, such as Daniel (Yazpik), a charismatic hotel employee. Although the film is somewhat predictable the further the story goes. I can see this movie working as PSA on narcissism. Whether it means reminding people that they might know someone who is a narcissist, or heck, maybe it could warn that a viewer that they themselves could be a narcissist. You never know. When it comes to being a comedy, that is where this movie fails at times. When it comes to being a romance, or something along that line, that is where this movie fails at times. There are ingredients for a decent movie somewhere and while I appreciate the message, I thought the delivery could have been better.

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In the end, “You’re Dating a Narcissist!” is not the greatest movie I have ever seen. Is it an abomination against humanity? Absolutely not. Is it a masterpiece? Not quite. The movie falls somewhere in the middle of those two extremes. I am sure Ann Marie Allison has some good ideas ahead for future projects. I am glad she got to tell a personal story, but I wish that story were presented differently. I am rooting for her in whatever she does next, but I have to be honest. I am going to give “You’re Dating a Narcissist!” a 5/10.

“You’re Dating a Narcissist” is now playing in theaters. Tickets are available now!

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GOAT (2026): A Traditional Sports Animation That Dribbles at a TikTok Pace

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“GOAT” is directed by Tyree Dillihay (Bob’s Burgers, Good Times) and Adam Rosette (Harvey Girls Forever!, The Mr. Peabody and Sherman Show) and stars Caleb McLaughlin (Stranger Things, The Book of Clarence), Gabrielle Union (Think Like a Man, Bring it On), Aaron Pierre (Mufasa: The Lion King, Krypton), Nicola Coughlin (Derry Girls, Bridgerton), David Harbour (Stranger Things, Black Widow), Nick Kroll (Big Mouth, Sausage Party), Jenifer Lewis (Think Like a Man, Black-ish), Patton Oswalt (King of Queens, Young Adult), Jelly Roll, Jennifer Hudson (The Jennifer Hudson Show, Dreamgirls), Sherry Cola (Joy Ride, Shortcomings), Eduardo Franco (Stranger Things, Booksmith), Andrew Santino (The Disaster Artist, Mixology), Bobby Lee (Inside Job, Kickin’ It Old School), and Stephen Curry (Holey Moley, Mr. Throwback). This film is about a goat named Will Harris who gets the unique opportunity to follow his dreams and play roarball with much bigger, stronger, and faster animals.

When I think of the gold standard of animation, my mind tends to dart towards Pixar. As for Sony Pictures Animation’s place in this medium, I am kind of iffy about them. As much as the “Spider-Verse” movies are masterpieces, they also come from the studio that is responsible for “The Emoji Movie,” one of the most unforgivable abominations made by man. The quality is not the most consistent from one project to the next.

I was not exactly sure what to expect with “GOAT.” I had some idea, but not quite a full picture. The film certainly looked like it took some inspiration from “Spider-Verse’s” fast-paced animation style while also finding a way to bring its own personality to the table. That said, from what I saw through the marketing, this film looked cliche in more ways than one. Having seen the movie, I can definitely say it is cliche. Depending on how many movies you have seen, some of this film’s structure is going to feel quite familiar to you. A protagonist wants to be the best at something despite what the odds suggest and what other people have to say. I have said on this blog that cliches are fine as long as a project can effectively utilize them. Having made that point, I wish “GOAT” was a better movie.

This is not to say the movie is the worst I have ever seen. In fact, when it comes to establishing characters like the scrawny Will Harris (McLaughlin) and his much stronger mentor figure Jett Fillmore (Union). The movie takes time to give them a splendid dynamic that plays out perfectly on and off the court. Their connection unleashes some cliches, but they are, again, cliches that are handled decently. You have the young, eager student willing to learn from a wiser figure who is supposedly becoming more washed-up with each passing minute. It is a traditional storytelling method, but it works.

“GOAT” is very much a product of the 2020s. In some ways, it does a good job at shining a light on people’s weaknesses and problems that define the decade. There is one gag in the film involving a character who is way too attached to their phone. I could see a joke like this playing well with parents in the audience. That said, at my screening, the person next to me, who happened to be an adult, was on their phone numerous times. I wonder how they took this lesson.

By the way, if this has not been made clear already, please put your phone away at the movies. That said, I understand not everyone carries a watch nowadays, so I have no problem if you want to check the time as long as you do not go any further to wreck my time. Turn the brightness down. Peek in your pocket. Don’t flash it heavily for everyone to see! You got it? Good. Let’s move on.

While the movie positively defines the 2020s in some ways, it also manages to define it in less stellar ways. One of my biggest problems with this film is the pacing. Granted, the movie is all killer, no filler. It dives into each and every point without skipping a beat. But for a movie that is about basketball, part of me wishes I could have seen more of it. Thankfully, unlike another so-called sports movie that goes by the name of “Him,” which I reviewed last year, “GOAT” actually dedicates a lot of time to its focal sport. That said, part of me wishes we could have spent a little extra time on the games. I am not saying that we need to see all 48 minutes of the film’s players running up and down the court, but by the time the film gets to the big game at the end, it feels much smaller in scale than it should be. It feels rushed. It feels like it wants to end before it starts. The film literally breezes through its first couple of quarters of the climactic game in about as much time as it would take me to swipe through a few YouTube shorts. There are some occasionally thrilling moments in these games, but they would probably be more exciting if the movie drew things out. “GOAT” tells a lot in a 100 minutes. I just wish I had the chance to digest the material a little more.

One reason why I tend to favor stories told by studios like Pixar is that unlike Sony, their films feel a lot less commercialized. Sure, “Toy Story” uses a lot of real life toys, “Cars” uses real life vehicles, and “Wall-E” has ties to “Hello, Dolly” and Apple. Yet those projects feel like stories rather than extended advertisements. Even in some of Sony’s better animated productions, I always notice they find a way to sneak in a commercial for one of their products. When it comes to product placement, “GOAT” is utterly shameless. The movie spends quite a bit of time showing off the PS5, creates its own 2K sports games based on roarball, makes the card game Uno a core concept of the plot, and even spends quite a bit of time featuring Doordash.

Just because this movie feels commercialized, does not mean it lacks creativity. Instead of basketball, the movie features the sport of roarball. Like basketball, it features players going up and down a court trying to put a ball through a hoop. The two sports have their differences. We do not see humans playing roarball and rather tons of different animals taking up the sport. The universe within “GOAT” seems to have a similar layout to “Zootopia” as there are no humans.

But above all, I find the roarball courts to be more interesting than anything else the sport has to offer. If you ever go to an NBA game, you would notice that each arena has its own individual quirks and home teams, but each court follows a similar structure to the next. The courts that we see through this film’s professional league sort of play like a video game. There are moments where characters have to make their way through rising surfaces, ice, fire, and so on. Honestly, if Nintendo wants to make a “Mario Basketball” game sometime soon, I think this movie would be a solid piece of inspiration.

In the end, “GOAT” is not the greatest flick. It has glimmers of goodness. Although those glimmers are rather thin. The voice cast is pretty talented and bring a lot to the table. Despite clearly being similar to basketball, the concept of roarball has sparks of creativity. While there are a couple decent moments, most of the scenes in this film feel so rushed to the point where I cannot fully appreciate the characters within them. Also, the product placement feels kind of over the top, especially considering this film is animated. As someone who is in his 20s, I sometimes think about what would happen if I had kids and I took them this movie. I think they would have a fun time with it, and for all I know it could age somewhat decently for them, but I do not know if it is going to age like a fine wine. Time will tell. As for this 26 year old loser, I think “GOAT” is a one and done for me. I am going to give “GOAT a 5/10.

“GOAT” is now playing in theaters everywhere. Tickets are available now!

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Joy Ride (2023): Four Young Women Go Global to Deliver the Hardest Laughs Imaginable

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“Joy Ride” is directed by Adele Lim, and this is her directorial debut. Prior to this outing, she has spent a much of her career writing various movies and TV shows. This film stars Ashley Park (Girls5eva, Emily in Paris), Sherry Cola (Turning Red, Good Trouble), Stephanie Hsu (Everything Everywhere All at Once, The Marvelous Ms. Maisel), and Sabrina Wu. This film is about four Asian American friends who go to China together in search of one of their birthmothers.

It is hard to find good comedies nowadays. I am not saying it is impossible. But usually when I think about some of the funnier recent movies, they honestly come from movies that could not be defined as comedies by themselves. “Free Guy” had me busting a gut, but you could argue that it is more of an action-adventure film than a comedy. The Marvel Cinematic Universe has delivered plenty of humor, but again, those are action movies. At times, “Everything Everywhere All at Once,” which is sort of a blend between action, adventure, and science fiction, had me wheezing and shaking my body. The only true comedies I recall watching in recent years that have been really good are “The Unbearable Weight of Massive Talent,” which yes, I guess you could say there is an actionish element there too. But in addition to that, I also really enjoyed films like “Clerks III” and “No Hard Feelings.” Either through a lack of good material or slim pickens, maybe both. If there are other comedies I saw, so be it, but that goes to show how weak the genre has been. When it comes to pure laughter, nothing has surpassed those titles. Sticking with the latter for a second, when I did my review for “No Hard Feelings,” I said I’m glad I saw it. However, I also said at the time, it was not even the funniest movie I have seen in the past few weeks.

Ladies and gentlemen, this is that movie.

Continuing to stick with the “No Hard Feelings” comparisons, I appreciated the raunch factor that movie provided. There are a few scenes that push some boundaries. But if you thought “No Hard Feelings” was dirty, hold your horses, because “Joy Ride” may the be, aside from maybe “Sausage Party,” the single filthiest movie I have reviewed on this blog. This film pulls no punches and unleashed all sorts of wild vulgarity that few movies of its kind have delivered. It is not as heavy in language as “The Wolf of Wall Street,” (the shorter runtime partially helps), but it nevertheless has tons of bombs and plenty of sexual content, much of which actually blends seamlessly with the situations at hand. There does not appear to be a moment of this movie that either feels tacked on or a waste of time. Everything works and is done to the point where it almost could not have been executed any better than it was. Though in all seriousness, if you are one of those people who does not like watching explicit scenes with parents, maybe find a way to watch this movie without them. Considering how “Joy Ride” was originally going to be called “Joy F*** Club,” it should not come as a surprise to know how naughty this movie is.

But just because this movie is all sex, all drugs, and all filth, does not mean it lacks a story. If anything I am pleasantly surprised with how amazingly laid out the story is. The concept is not too complicated, and if this movie had a minimalistic point a to b narrative to make me laugh, that would have been serviceable. But the trio of writers behind this movie decided to go beyond that barrier and not only bring a good story in addition to tons of laughs, but I would say when it comes to turning points, this film brings one of the best I have seen this year. I was kind of taken aback by how invested I became in the story for a film that is best described as a pure comedy. When I look back at movies like “Horrible Bosses” or “Anchorman,” I remember those movies not so much for the narrative, even though they tend to make sense, there is nothing broken about them. But I remember them mostly for the characters. Much like “Anchorman,” this film has a lead quartet that works both together and as individuals.

You have Audrey (left center), the serious lawyer who wants nothing more to remain successful and find her mom. Along for the ride is her best friend, Lolo (right), an artistic individual who has been by Audrey’s side since her youth. Also on the team is another artsy type, Kat (left), a famous actress, played marvelously by Stephanie Hsu, whose top tier work in “Everything Everywhere All at Once” is followed up nicely here. Finishing things off is Deadeye (right center), Lolo’s cousin, who deeply loves k-pop. Of the group, she seems to be the geek type. Not in a shy, reserved way though. Each individual appears to be rather outgoing, which matches the party-like vibe of the film from start to finish, but much like certain geeks such as myself, her obsession for what she loves is crystal clear.

Overall, the phenomenal lead cast makes this movie shine. The four lead women may not be the most well-known performers. Personally, the only one of the bunch I could have picked out was Stephanie Hsu. And unfortunately, due to how bad this film did at the box office, they might remain as such. But they make this movie worth the watch. All of the cast members play off each other perfectly and I loved every second they were on screen. I do not think a sequel is in the cards right now for “Joy Ride,” but I would love to see these four together again in some capacity. They did a great job.

The supporting cast is great too, between everyone on the basketball team to those in Audrey’s family, but perhaps the highlight of said cast would have to be Meredith Hagner (Search Party, Disenchantment). Hagner plays Jess, a drug smuggler, and she is not in much of the movie, but the scene she is in is one of the film’s best. Look out for it, if you like gross humor, you might be entertained.

One of the best things about “Joy Ride” is that despite how it is heavily marketed as a laugh out loud comedy and contains all sorts of vulgar humor, it does not shy away from being heartfelt. Because I like these characters so much, I not only end up rooting for them, I feel bad for them when something tends to not go their way. When the characters hit a certain low, I am hoping they get back up. There is a certain goldilocks zone with this film by the end of it that despite being filled with dark humor through most of it, it ends up meshing together with, like the title, a joyful vibe. Check out this film, you’ll laugh, you’ll have a good time, and it is the filthiest comedy I have seen in years.

In the end, “Joy Ride” does not always make sense. But even in its more unrealistic moments, there is a sense of immersion in them. This movie builds a world around it in which I found myself invested. The characters are layered, the jokes are hysterical, and the screenplay is more Shakespearean than it has any right being. If you are not cool watching certain films with your parents, think twice before turning “Joy Ride” on with them in the room. But I think this is a great film to watch with friends, or even by yourself. The premise may be simple, but the movie within the premise can only be described as a goldmine. I am going to give “Joy Ride” an 8/10.

Also, this movie would not be as good as it is if were not for the writers. Adele Lim, Teresa Hsiao, and Cherry Chevapravatdumrong are responsible for one of the best comedies in the past decade. Also, I want to shout out Cherry Chevapravatdumrong specifically, as she also wrote my favorite television episode of all time, specifically “And Then There Were Fewer” from the “Family Guy” series. I talked a bit about the episode a few years back and it still remains a gem in my book. Here is hoping we get more good material from her, in addition to Lim and Hsiao.

“Joy Ride” is now playing in theaters and is also available to rent or buy on VOD platforms.

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